जब partner से हो जाये झगड़ा तो क्या करें ? – What to do when a partner starts fighting ? In Hindi

जब partner से हो जाये झगड़ा तो क्या करें ? ? – What to do when a partner starts fighting ? In Hindi
Jhagda Kis Husband-Wife Me Nahi Hota ?

कहते है कि जहा प्यार ❤ होता है, गुस्सा ? भी वही होता है. तभी तो marriage को खट्टा-मीठा रिश्ता कहते है. कभी-कभी छोटी सी बात से शुरू होकर झगड़े की नौबत यहाँ तक पहुंच जाती है कि पति-पत्नी एक दूसरे से बात भी नहीं करते और एक-दूसरे का face भी देखना पसंद नहीं करते. ?

Sure ये झगड़ा थोड़े time के लिए है क्योंकि कभी न कभी तो बातचीत शुरू करनी ही पड़ती है, लेकिन कभी-कभी जब झगड़ा सारी limits पार कर जाता है तो marriage टूटने के कगार पर पहुच जाती है. गुस्से में एक-दूसर के बारे में ऐसी-ऐसी बातें मुंह से निकल जाती है जो गुस्सा और झगड़ा बढ़ाने में आग में घी का काम करती है. Sure झगड़ा करें लेकिन एक limit में रह कर ताकि सारी misconceptions दूर हो जाये और आपका relation और strong हो. जब भी partner से झगड़ा हो तो कुछ बातों को ध्यान में रखना बेहद important है….

दूसरों से compare न करें – Do not compare with others

‘ तुम से तो समझदार तो तुम्हारी बहन है, या देवरानी है, वो कभी भी पति के आगे नहीं बोलती, पता नहीं तुम्हारे जुबान इतनी लम्बी कैसे. अरे, पहले खुद को तो देखो, मेरे papa और भाई जैसे कौन से talent है आप में. ‘ Husband-wife का झगड़े में ऐसी बातें normal सुनने को मिलती है. झगड़ा आप दोनों में हो रहा है, दूसरों से एक-दूसरे को compare न करे. Wife की habit होती है कि वो husband के मुंह में किसी दूसरी महिला की तारीफ तो दूर, उससे अपनी तुलना भी करना पसंद नहीं करती. वही पुरुष के ego को चोट पहुंचती है कि उसकी wife उसके आगे जुबान कैसे खोली और पलट कर जवाब कैसे दिया.

एक-दूसरे के घरवालों को बिच में न लाये – Do not interfere with each other’s relatives

जिस बात पर आपका झगड़ा start हुआ, उसके बारे में ही conversation करे और झगड़ा solve करने की कोशिश करे. एक-दूसरे के माता-पिता या भाई-बहन को निशाना बनाते हुए उनके बारे में कोई गलत बात न करे. इससे झगड़ा solve होने की बजाय उलझ सकता है, क्योंकि अपने घरवालों के खिलाफ कोई भी नहीं सुन सकता. ऐसे में दोनों को खुद पर control करना चाहिए. कई बार यही घर वाले husband-wife के आपसी झगड़ों को solve करने में main role निभाते हैं.

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110 Replies to “जब partner से हो जाये झगड़ा तो क्या करें ? – What to do when a partner starts fighting ? In Hindi”

      1. Mai apne bf se bht pyr krti hu or voh bhi hm logo ka relation 1 yr se jada ho gya h mujhse phle uski gf thi jo 5 sal se thi voh ek br phle bhi relation me reh k usko cheat kr chuki h phir abhi uska kisi bt ko lekar finally breakup ho gya tha ab mai uski life me hu tb bhi vo us cheater ldki se bt krta h kbhi kbhi or voh ldki bhi krti h or mai kuch khti hu to manta nhi h uski tariff krta rhta h jo ki voh is kabil hai bhi nhi

        1. Or hm log shadi k liy bhi planning kr chuke h bt hm log rent pe rhte h jo mere bf ki family is bt ko lekar thode pareshaan ki ase me kaise krenge uske bd se mere bf ki tbiyt bhi khrab ho gai to unki mom mere upr blame kr ri h ki mne kuch kr diya bhala mai apne hi pyr ko q nuksaan phochaungi jb cheqcup kraya to tbyride pro nikli is vjh se voh mujhse 2 mhine se thik se bt bhi nhi krta pyar to bacha hi nhi h sirf ldai hoti h

        2. Aisa tabhi hota hai jab aapke or aapke bf ke bich physical relation ho ya fir na ho..dono hi situation me ladke ladkiyo ko dhokha dete hai.. Agar aapko pata hai ki aapka bf aapko cheat kar raha hai to aapko apne kadam piche kar lene chahiye.. Khud ke pair me kulhadi marne se kya fayda

          1. MeriJiske sath sagai ho rahi hai
            Vo kisi ladke se 3 year se Love karti hai
            Or Abbi bhi bat karti hai or un dono ke bich me vo sab kuch bhi hua hai jo nahi hona chahiye
            mene use bola ab jo hua koi bat nahi a ab S3 bat karna Band kar do to vo bolti hai uski bhi sagai hogi
            Tab aromatic
            Bat karna Band Ho jaegi
            To ap bataiye esi situation me Muje kya karna chahiye
            Plz plz
            Reply me

        3. Yhi same case mere saath hai…maine bhut kuch try kr liya lekin koi fayda nhi hua…mai first time aise kisi site pe ye sab search kr rha hu..aur same situation thi to reply krne ka mn kr gya..merko to itna pta chla k aisi situation me hmari value zero hoti hai..vo saari importance sirf us bnde ko dete hai jinse vo phle baat bhi baat krte the…mere ko to kuch bhi smjh nhi aa rha..mn krta hai k khi ja k mr jau..tum hi koi advice do merko bhi..

        4. May be voh tumhe apni jis ex girlfriend ke baare me bolta hai voh usse bhaut pyar karta ho or ha may be voh tumhe uski jagah na de paye chahe voh bhi tumse pyar karta hai , kyoki 5saal kam nahi hote , tum toh apne boyfriend se 1saal me itna pyar karne lagi or uske liye apne 5 saal ke relationship ko bhulana thoda mushkil hoga but agar tum chaho toh yeh possible hai usko yeh yakeen dilao ki tum usse apni jaan se bhi zyada pyar karti ho or ha nirash na hona agar tum sach me usse bhaut pyar karti ho toh tum give up nahi karogi , I would like you to find great love in your life ??, bye . Love is beautiful .

  1. Hi..!! Main apne bf ko bohut pyar karti hun mra bf ke bina m ji ni chakti hun hunre long relation hai humre ghor wale bhi humre relation saady kely ready hai.. Aj kuch mahine hua hai mra bf muje har choti choti bat par gussa karta hai aur muje breakup k bad karta hai aur bohut galiya deta hai bohut he bad Word se muje galia deta hai.. Woh muje care bhi ni karta hai aur call bhi ni karta hai date kely bhi ni jata hai.. Main itna roti hun usko koi farok he ni padta hai.. So main kya karo?? please muje kuch tips dijea ki m Apne bf ko pehle jaisa thik kar pao woh pehle k tarh muje care pyar karne lage kyun ki m apne bf k bagr ji ni chaktti hun.. Muje ni jina uske bina na uske elaba muje koi aur ladka chahia.. Bus me apne bf k saath he puri life bitana chahtti hun..

    1. Sbse phle to ap khud pr kabu rakhe khud ko thoda busy rkhe ki uski yad km aye fr ap use khud se call mszs krna bnd kr de thoda ignore kre.. Ek baat yaad rkhiye AGR ap kisi k peeche bhagengi to vo apse or door bhagega to accha hoga ki aap baat krne k liye phle pahal na kare.. Isse unhe ehsas hoga ki mere itni care krne vala attention dene vala door ho rh h..kuch time ise chlne de AGR vo apse baat krk is badlav ki vjh janna chahe or sath rhna chahe to ap phle apni sari complaints promise krva lijiye ki ky problm h.. Or AGR usko apke baat na krne se frk ni pdta to jbrdsti k rishte m kyo bandhna apko kisi acche wqt dekh kr sare rishte tod de.. Or ek bt yad rkhe kisi k chle jne se zindgi ni rukti bahtar insan Abhi b isi duniya m h ky pta ap kB kisse kha mil jye.. So be never sad

    2. Aap use puchna chiye huaa kiya jo vo esa Ho gya h aap ko jb vo Gus’s kre piyr se bola chiye jbhi vo Gus’s kre use bhs krni nhi chiye ok

  2. Hlo mam main jisse pyar krti hu wo married h or unki ek beti bhi h..infact wo mare boss h jb mujhe pta chala k unki wife unke according achi nhi h unki or unke wife k bich kuch bhi aisa nhi h jo ek husband wife k bich hota h unki baby bhi surrogate child h..toh pta nhi kyu mujhe unse attraction hua or phr pyar or wo bhi meri traf attract hue or hume relationship m 2 year ho gye lakin aajkal wo mujhe tym nhi dete ho meri har choti choti baat p gussa krte h mera unse isse baat p jhgda ho gya m kya kru main unke bina nhi rah sakti m kaise baat kru unse or wo mujhse baat bhi nhi kr rhe..pl help me

    1. Aaj jis relation me hai aapko pata hoga ki usay kya kahta hai – Njayaj rsihta … Jisay samaj kabhi bhi accept nahi karegi isiliye to aap chori-chipe ish rishte ko nibha rahi hai, jiska koi future bhi nahi hai… Behtar hoga ki aap ish relation se bahar nikale or apni nayi ife suru kare,…
      Hamesa aisa dekha gaya hai ki married man apni wife se satisfied nahi ho pate to wo dusari se apne sukh pene ke liye love ka natak karta hai, Jhuthe sapne dikhate hai par jab uska arman pura ho jata hai to wo aapko chod dete hai.. Ek kahawat to suni ho hogi aapne ‘ jis daal me aap baithe ho usi ko aap katna chahte ho ‘ … matlab ki aap apni life ko apne hi haatho barbar kar rahe ho , or aapko pata bhi hai ki is relation me koi future hai bas sapne hi hai… Ye galti aapko mahangi pad sakte hai, ho sake to abhi se sambhal jaye.

    2. Pahli bt to ye relationship galat tha jab vo married the to apko unse realtionship banani hi nhi chahiye thi ..
      Ab vo apse bt nhi karte to iska mtlb hai ki unka attraction nhi tha bs apse relationship banana chahte the vo unhone bna liya …
      Ab ap bhi u he bhool jaiye.

      1. Bullshit.. Ek bat yad rkhe koi b insan kisi se kam ni h so ap b unhe sbke smne neecha dikhaye or AGR vo iska virodh kre to ap jwb de ki ap b aisa krte h uska kya or AGR hath uthaye to police ko inform kre..!!

    1. Pehle to khud koshish kre jo wo kr rhe h wo aap b kr skti h jb na sambhale tb police ko call kre..yahan sati savitri bnogi to apne sharir se hath dho bethogi..bcz yahan koi ram nai h to sita hum ku banke rahe

  3. Hi mam mera mere pati se bahut jagra hota rahta hai ya doosron ki vajah se ya koi asi waasi baat hamare beech joti hai . Hum saath kaam karte hai meri nanand ki bahu bi kaam karti hai. Lekin mere pati mere se jiyaada use hushiyaar samjte hai balki itne saalon se maine unhe kaam kar diya hai .muj par koi confidence hi nahi hai unhe. Pata nahi kiya karoo. Our ha kaam ki vajah se mujhe se baat tak nahi karte our gar bi aate hai to tv dekhke bas so jaayenge . Matlab main apne aap ko akeli hi samjti hu. Pl help mi

  4. elo mem m apni gf se bhut pyar krta hu humari ladi hui humari to sadi bi hone wali thi pr usne us riste ko mna hi kr diya m kya kru.

    1. yahi condision h mere bhi bhai yo to mugh se khate h mar jao ge but aap se saadi nahi karo ge hamare to engagment bhi ho choke h saara saaman bhi vapis kar diya aur sab kuch khatam ho gaya phone number bhi block kar diya us k gharwale ab bhi muge se aggre h but yo kise k nahi maan rahe pls dobara kase baat ban sake h ls kuch batao

      1. Mai Apni jaanu se bohot love karta hoo bo bhi bohot love karti hain mujse par gf ko chhoti chhoti baat pe bohot gussa aata hai Mai unko samjhane ki kosis karta Hu par bo shant ni hoti kya karu

  5. Hi mam mere pati shadi se pahle muze bahut like karte the ..or milte b the gift b dete the..par shadi k bad ESA kabhi kucvh nhi huva..fir b mene is or Ryan nhi diya..shadi k bad damad ki pahli holi sasural me hot I h hmare yha par go nhi aye..ulta muze bulaya or muze holi ki puja sath me nhi karwayi.me bahar job karti hu to na to kabhi vo muze Milne ate na job par cchodne jate …karwa choth par nhi me sari raat wait karti rahi ki vo muze surprise denge par vo nhi aaye… Ulta muze diwali par bula liya .jab sath me hoti hu to acchi bat karte h pyar karte h .orkahte h sorry tym nhi tha. Me unhe samz nhi pati..iske bad me pragnant huyi.ESE tym me b ladte the ulta sidha bolte the…me bahut roti thi.ye b nhi sochte the ki baby par asar hoga..1 se 9 month take Dr.cheackup k liye me akele gyi..PR vo nhi gye…sochoek alag hi ehsas hota h mumma papa bnne ka .ESE me b .dilevry ho gyi .tab dusre din aaye vo b baby ko due se dekha…or abi
    Mayke me nhi nhi aye mere…currently me duty join kr chuki hu or ek cchote se gaav me merit baby k sath akele rah rah rhi hu par na saas na nanad ..or na hi saat janam nibhane wsla sathi h …mene unhe bahut samzati he par koi asar nhi pasta…..me kya karu plz btaaye ander se khokhli hoti ja ri hu….marna chahti hu PR baby h

    1. Pehle to aap ye janane ki koshis kare ki kis wajah se wo aapse aisa behave kar rahe hai.. Shadi se pehle sabhi mard aise hi hote hai par shadi ke bad wo apna asli rang dikhate hai, aap bhi unhe apna rang dikhaye.. Agar wo aapko ignore kar rahe hai to aap bhi unhe jyda interest dene ki jarurat nahi, aise me aap khud apne gamo me ulajh jayengi..
      Behtar yahi hoga ki aap apne job or apni baby par dhyan de, or apne pati se hamesa contect me rahe…
      Ek baat hamesa yaad rakhiye ki usi se ummid karna chahiye jo aapki kadar karta ho, aise insan se ummid krnn bekar hai jise aapki koi value hi na ho…
      Koi aapka sath na de to kya aap life se haar maan jaoge, jina sikho, jo bura karta hai uske sath hamesa bura hi hota hai… Aapp sahi rahi ek na ek din waisa hi hoga jaisa aap chahti ho..
      Aaj ka relationship itna ghatiya ho gaya hai ki mujhe mardo ke umar lalat aati hai..

  6. Hii
    Mai apne bf ko bahut love krti hu aur vo bhi hme utna hi pyar krte hai but unko jhuth ni psnd aur hmne unse ek bat jhuth bol diya 10 min bad SB sahi bhi btaya but vo hme maph ni kr rhe aur breakup ki bat kr diye mai kaise es rista ko bchau smjh ni aa RHA help me please

    1. Shruti ji pehle to aapko apne bf ki jagah par rakhkar dekhana hoga ki agar aap unki jagah par hoti to kya karti.. Kya aapka jhuth itna bada tha ki wo aapse breakup karna chahta hai, agar choti si baat ke liye wo aapse breakup karna chata hai to aapka bf bada hi sensetive hai, jo ki kisi bhi reationship ko todne ke liye kafi hota hai, aapko sirf apne love life par hi focus nahi karna chahiye balki apne future ke planning ke bare me sochna chahiye..

      1. Future life ke bare mai humne planning ki bt ye sab hu bsss hume phir se ek bar unke sath rele.me aana hai ek bar mokka mangkr dekhna hai pr wo kuch smjhne ki halt mai nahi hai….mai unko kaise smjhau aapn btai ki ekbar phir se life start krni hai unke sath….kya kru unko mnane ke liye

          1. Ladko ki ek bahut buri aagat hoti ahi ki agar uski gf apne ex bf se baat karti hai to wo charecterless hai.. Aise mean minded bf ke sath puri life spend karna sahi nahi hota, behtar hoga ki aa usay bhula de…. Thida bura to lagega but this is reality

  7. Hi
    Mai aman bolra hu…..mai apni gf se bhit pyaar krta hu or wo bhi utna hi pyaar krti h but wo mujhe time nhi de paati jbb possible bhi ho time dena to bhi nhi deti but pyaar krti h…..to isi baat me maine use thida suna diya fir wo kahne lgi…ab tu sochle tujhe kya krna h teri life ….kahti h ki mai tujhe time ni de pati…mera mind baccho jesa h jo tu cahata h msi wo nhi krti ani clati hu to tu sochle ab kya krna h tujhe mai tujhe rokoongi nhi…..btaao sir ab mai kya kroo msi usse breakup nhi cahata….use kese mnaoo mai ab plizzzz help me

  8. Hello…Mene aene bf se 1 month se Job krti hu or mene use btaya nahi ki me Job krti hu or vo mujse bahut naraj hai me Kaise manavu plz ans me

      1. Me apne bf se bhwt pyr krti hu or wo v mujhse bhwt krta h lkin hmare beech bhwt kuch hua ESA jisse aj wo mujhpr bharosa ni krta kvi v mere num pr wrong cl aayi mene wo num apne bf ko dediya or us wrong num ne bhwt glt bola jbki meri lyf me unke alawa koi ni tha fir v pta ni kisne cl ki tbse wo mujhse door door rehne lgE bharosa ni krte glt bol jate h bhwt kvi kvi to itna glt ki me brdsh ni kr pati mene bhwt kosis ki samjhane ki lkin wo ni mante hr trf se me glt sabit ho jati hu me kya kru me janti hu wo mujhse bhwt pyr krte h isly avi tk ni chhodna lkin mujhe unka pyr k sath bharosa v chaiye or jb me glt ni thi to me q manu me kya kru plz btay

        1. Sak ka kida agar dimag me ghus jata hai to usay nikalna bahd ahi muskil hota hai. Aap apne bf se kaho ki jis ki wajah se hamare bich em problem hui hai usay main apni life se nikal dungi tumhare liye… Or apne contact number change kar do or wo number sirf apne bf ko de do, or kahna ki agar tum mujhse saccha pyar karte the to mujhse jarur contact karoge… Wait for a week agar wo aapse contact karta hai to its ok otherwise accept the truth and forget everything and concentrate in ur future planning.

  9. Hello sir me aapni gf se bout pyaar karta hu but 1 saal phele me use time nahi de pata tha to vo muje bolti thi Ki me aapko chod dungi aur muje chod diya me usko manane ki koshis to karta hu vo manti nahi he aur bolti he humere bich aab kuch nahi he 2 saal se use miss kar raha hu

  10. Meri gf se ladayi ho gayi or kafi din tak use baat nahi huyi is bich uski engagement ho gayi or 5 months baad uski sadi hai… mujhe pata chal gaya h mai uske bina jinda nahi raih paunga mai usse bahut bahut bahut pyar krta… mere dil me jitna dard hai mai kisi ko bayan nahi kr sakta.. wo apni fmli ko heart nahi krna chahta. .. mai use or uski fmli ko kaise manaun.

    1. Shadi fixed ho gai hai to ab aap kya kar sakte ho, behtr hoga ki jo hua usay ek bure sapne ke tarah bhul ja , sayad aapke liye ussay bhi acchi sapno ki raani hogi… Be positive

    2. sir apne bilkul right kaha h. Same Problem mere saath bhi hui h isliye ek choti si advise h shubham apke liye Abhi bhi time h shaadi hone me apko ek baar try krna chahiye shayad ladki ke ghar wale apke pyar ko samjhe or ladki se baat kro use baato ki aap use bahut pyar krte ho agr apki gf hi nhi samjh pa rahi apko toh aap khud ko change krdo “Jaise ki SIR ne kaha h apko sayad apke liye ussay bhi achchi sapno ki rani mil jaye” Or milegi jarur milegi

  11. Mai ne uski maang me sindur bhara hai mai use gf nahi hamesa apni bibi mana hai.. uske ghar wale ko kaise manaun kuch samaj nahi aa raha.

    1. Samaj me shadi karne or chori chipe kisi ki maang me sidur bharna dono hi alag-alag baat hoti hai.. Aisa insan tab karta hai jab usay apne pyar ka khone ka dar hota hai. Ek baat aapko jananani behad jaruri hai ki aap uske ghar walo ko shadi ke liye samjha nahi sakte agar samjhane jaoge to jute padenge, iske liye aapki gf ko unke pariwar walon se baat karni hoga.. Jyada jankari ke liye hamari ye post read kare issay aapko help milegi.. http://www.acchibaat.com/apni-family-ko-love-marriage-ke-liye-kaise-manaye/

  12. Me apne bf se bhwt pyr krti hu or wo v mujhse bhwt krta h lkin hmare beech bhwt kuch hua ESA jisse aj wo mujhpr bharosa ni krta kvi v mere num pr wrong cl aayi mene wo num apne bf ko dediya or us wrong num ne bhwt glt bola jbki meri lyf me unke alawa koi ni tha fir v pta ni kisne cl ki tbse wo mujhse door door rehne lgE bharosa ni krte glt bol jate h bhwt kvi kvi to itna glt ki me brdsh ni kr pati mene bhwt kosis ki samjhane ki lkin wo ni mante hr trf se me glt sabit ho jati hu me kya kru me janti hu wo mujhse bhwt pyr krte h isly avi tk ni chhodna lkin mujhe unka pyr k sath bharosa v chaiye or jb me glt ni thi to me q manu me kya kru plz btay

  13. helo mem meri sadi k hue bas kuch hi month hue h. aur mere pati aur mere zgde hona start ho gy h…….. mem meri 2 sas h jisme se phle wali sas ki deth ho chuki h aur abhi wali sas k ek bhi baccha nhi h……… phle wali sas ko abhi wali sas ne aur sasur ne dono ne milkar mar diya……….. aisa sb logo ka khna aur sadi se phle muje mere pti ne bhi yhi bola……. bachpan se hi mere pti aur meri nand ko dara kr rkha h…….. meri en ko kuch na kuch bol kr zgda krvati rhti h aur me preshan ho jati hu… muje kisi ka bhi suporrt nhi milta na pti ka na hi nand ka aise me kya kru mem y rista khtm kr dena chaiy ya aage bdauu.

  14. Mere husband mujhse naraj h jo ki sari galti unhi ki h pr vo hme kbi manate ni h.or agr hm manayenge to vo turant man jate h lekin khud se vo hme kbi ni manate h

    1. well, mahiJi aap aapke pati se kafi pyar karte ho isiliye aap aapke pati ko chhoti chhoti galtiyon pe sorry bol dete ho. ya ,agar galti tumhari ho ya unki fir bhi aap hi unse mafi mangte ho,Iska matlab ye he ke aap unse behad pyar karte ho,lekin iska matlab yebhi nahi ke aapke pati aapse payr na karte ho……….vo bhi aap se behad pyar karte he,lekin ijhar nhi kar pate……aap aapka rishta dusre couples se compare karna bandh kar dijiye…..kafi problems vahi pe khtam ho jayegi….i hope its helpful to u ….DM4chat

    2. Aap dono me understanding nhi hai or na barosa hoga agar life me ye dono nhi hai tab ye relationship sirf nam ka hai aap ka husband agar aap par choti choti baat par gussa hote hai ya ladai karte hai do resion hoga ya toh ap unko ab pasand nhi ya wo kise or se pyar karte hoenge

    3. waqt do…thoda wait kro….or kuch aisa surprize plan kro ya video jisme galti krne wale hi maafi magne se relation me sucess hote h aisa message mile ….chahe ap animated bnalo koi cartoon character ko present krk…..kbhi kbhi hume samaj ni ata ki show kya kre or ego hurt na ho……tb ye small ideas life me fir se ek new turning or interest sath me trust bdha dete h…..

  15. Hey enagaged or mere fiance se hr 2 din me jhgda hota h qki woh kehte h k jaisa pyrr unko pehle wali gf se mila waisa unko aaj tk nhi mila or woh mereor khudke past ko bhula nhi paare bss me itna chahti h k me aisa kya kru jisse unko lge k me unse pehle wali se b zyada pyrr krti h

    1. Jisa pyar unko pehli wali girlfriend se mila waisa pyar or koi nahi kar sakte, iska matlab unko dusari bhi gf rahi hogi or sayd tisari bhi.. Ab aap dono life partner banane ja rahe ho to aapke hone wali pati agar aapse ye sab discuss karte hai to ek bimar insan hai jisay support ki jarurat hai.. Wo apne pehle pyar ko bhul nahi pa rahe…. Unhe bas aapko ye yakin dilana hia ki wo ladki agar tumse itna hi pyar karti thi to tumhe itna dard kyu diya, jisay tum itna pyar karte ho kya bhi usay utna hi pyar karte ho ? mujhe to nahi lagta .. agar kate hote to mujhse shadi nahi karte..

    2. life h…..bs ye baat ap samjhane ka try kro jaise humre hatho ki ungliya same ni toh waise hi hrinsaan ka presentation behaviour expectation or show krne ka tarika same ni hota…..or hr relationship apne ap me unique hota h……or jb hum patner ko samjh jate h to unki khusi k ly waise hi loveshow krte h…..kuch ko feeling wala love psnd h…..kuch k ly care krna hi love h…kuch k ly sath hi kafi h loveme….toh kuch physical relationship ko lovesamjhte h…..bs soch ka fark h….bt love is a undescribable fact of life….

  16. Hlo mem..
    Me apne bf ko kbhi bhi khuch v bolti hu bt wo meri bat kbhi nhi mante h……. Humesa bolte h ab se pkaaa kruga bt fir v nhi krte bs sirf sorry bol kr hi bat khtm kr dete h…. Bt wo kbhi nhi meri boli huyi kam krte h… Bs yhi bolte h dear me bhut besy rhta hu…. Or ab to kuch jada hi mughe ingnor v krne lge h…. Or bilkul care v nhi krte….. Esi bat pr me unse bat nhi kr rhi hu… Or Maine apna whatsapp v uninstall kr diya bt 2 din ho gye unko koi v coll nhi aaya…… Ab Ap btaao me kya kru….. Plz help me

    1. Call or message ka wait karo agar wo karta hai to baat karo nato to usay apni life se ignore karna suru kar do… Ladko me ek attitude hota hai wo ladkiyo ko apni pair ki juti samajhte hai.. Usay dikha do ki tum bhi kisi se kam nahi.. Nikal do usay apni life se.

  17. Mai apni gf se bahut pyar karta hun aur wo bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti hai magar hum dono ke bich baar baar jhagra hote rahta hai aur hum dono marriage bhi Karna chahta hun magar mai darta hu ki agar marriage kar liye aur isi Tarah roj jhagra hote raha to fir to divoce ke baari yaa jayegi isiliye darta hu to kya Kare hum hume kuchh bhi samajh me nhi aa raha plzz help me guys….

    1. pehle to dekhiye ki jhagada kis wajah se hota hai , jhagade ki suru wat kon karta hai, kon kisi manata hai, kon sanse jyada naraj rahta , aksar ladkiya choti choti baato par jhagada kr leti or unki galti hote huye bhi kabhi sorry nahi kahti agar aapke sath bhi aisa ho raha hai to apka life partner future me aapko pain killer khane par majbor kar sakta hai.. Soch samajh ke faysal le

  18. M ek ldke se pyar krti thi wo b mujse krta tha hum shadi krna chahte the but hum dono ka religion alg tha wo momdun n m hindu. mene apne mmy pa ko jese tese kr k mna b liya tha. but wo nai kr paya uske mmy pa nai mane to mene kaha hum court marrig kr lete h. but is baat k liye ready nai hua is baat pe hum dono ka bhot jhagda hua. fer hum dono alg ho gye uske thode din baad usne muje fer contact kiya hum dono ki fer baat start ho gai is bich mene suicide b kiya mene apne hatho ki dono nase kaat li thi.tb b mene usko bola tu hum dono ki family ko bula le yahin ye mater khatm ho jayega or hum ek ho jayenge but tb b usne meri baat nai mani or hum dono fer alg ho gye thodi din baad uske family ne uske liye ldki dhundi or shadi kr di shadi k baad fer usne muje call krna start kiya mere ofc k bahar wait krna. mene bhot koshish ki but usse dur jane ki fer wo mere karib aata gya. ab uska ek beta h or wo 1 saal ka h. wo muje aaj b emotional blackmail krta h meri wife achi nai h all that. to mene bola thik h to tu usse chor de or hum dono shadi kr lete h. wo use chorne ko teyar nai h. or muje b chore nai rha. wo mera 1st hi love h or aaj muje uska sath dete huye 15saal ho gye h. m aaj fer usi condition m hu jisme wo muje chore gya tha. muje kuch b smj nai aa rha m kya kru mene uska bhot sath diya chahe wo financial ho mantaly ho ya physically ho. but ab to sach m bhot jyada ho gya h. koi din aisa nai jata jb m roti naaai hu. me har waqt marne ki hi sochti rehti hu. m mantaly bhot jyada disturb ho gai hu m bta naai skti. mene kbi use dhokha nai diya but usne mere pyar ka to tmashaa hi bna k rakh diya h muje kuch b smj nai aa rha m kya kru.

    1. Pyar me log bewakuf bante hai or tum to bewakufi ki misal ho.. Sorry par mujhe ye kehte huye sarm aati hai ki aaj ki ladkiya aisi bhi hai, jo apne lover ke liye jaan de rahi hai or unka lover uski respect tak nahi karta.. Bewakufi ki ek limit hoti hai, Aapko samajhna hoga ki wo aldka aapke sath time pass kar raha hai… Shadi ke bad sab kuch badal jata hai. Pehle to usne tumhe dhokha diya or abhi wo apni wife ko dhokha de raha hai… Overall wo ek dhokhebaj insan hi hai jisay sirf ladkiyo ke sath time pass karne me maja aata hai..
      Waise bhi itne saalo me aapko to uske bare me bahhut kuch pata chal hi gaya hoga, par fir bhi kyu uske sath contact me ho… Sab ke samne usay ek kas ke tappad par dalo, ho sake to uske ghar jake uski ijjat utar do.. Dikha do ki ladkiya jitna pyar karti hai ussay jyada apni ijjat bhi karna jati hai… Baki aapki marji,,

    2. Kuch nhi time pss kr raa h vo tum se OK y pgl pn kr rhe us k liye tum agr wife hrm h to bacha kaa se Ho gya akl h to use dur Ho jaao OK

  19. mera bf choti choti si baato mai rista khatam krne ki bate krta hai or use jada kuch baat kro ya smjne ki kosis kro to gandi gandi ……. ka use krta hai ????????

    1. iska matlab wo aaoki respect nahi karta… Jiase wo choti-choti baaton par relation break karni ki baat karta hai waise hi agar aisa kabhi wo kahe to aap khud ussay relation break kar do.. Warning mat dena directly relation break kar dena, dekhna wo tumhe contact karne ki kosisi karega.. Aise me tum usay change hone ke liye kah sakti ho, agar wo change hone ko ready hai to ek chance jarur dena

    2. Aap use baat kre phly kiya chta h agr vo alg hona chta h to ho jaa naa thik h q ki ek trf kaa piyr aacha nhi agr vo piyr krta h to aap ko alg nhi hone dy gaa…

      Agr koi apni lover gnda bolta h to vo uska sg ya sath nhi dy skta hmsa yd rkna ok

  20. Sir meri mere bde bhai ke sath shadi hui thi. ptni se jab me shadi ki pahli rat ko mila to vo so gyi thi vo kabhi bhi mere sath na to kiss krti hai aur na hi sex ke liye razi hoti hai na phone pe jyada bat krti hai aur khti hai ki vo mughse pyar krti hai lekin vo padhna chahti hai aur is liye esa krti hai
    Sir kya vo sahi hai ya galat me samagh nhi pa rha hu kya kru sir mughe batao

  21. Me ek serious relationahp me hu uss insan k sath jisko me social site pe mili 5sal se usko
    Janti thi kafi suljha hua smajdar admi lgta tha he is bank mnager in gvt bank …intelligent hai kafi pr is se
    Mera relation 5 mahine se hi hua us se pahle sirf normally Bat hoyi thi inse relatn k pahle meri life me ek ldka jbrdsti ghusa hua to jo muje had sejyada emotionally torture krta tha aur emotional blackmail kr k mere sath relatn me rha usko mene bht
    Mushkil se apni life se nikala …ab mere bf ne mera fb gmail sb hack kr dia unko mujpe shaq jrne ki adatnpd gai jbki me dhokha nh de rh thi unko to bhi ……shaq k karan hamari ek din bht bdi ldai hui ……uske bad
    Se unhone muje papa bhaiya aur Ghr walo ko call kr k sb batane ki dhamki dena shuru kr dia …rat me sone k bad muje call kr k jgaya jata h aur thk se bat na krne pe muje bht gnda gnda bola jata h bht hi worst uske bad papa ko call krne ki dhamkia di jati h ek bar to rat ki 3 bje call b kr dia papa ko …mene ja k utha lia…ab aye din
    Jgda hota h aur muje abuse krte h sharab pite h vdo call me dikha k had se jyada sankipan dikhate hain aur mere phn k contact sb leliye sare pics leliye mere fb aur instagram ko hack kr dia me delete krti hu to wo waps login kr k usko delete nh hone dete pls tell me somthng

      1. helo sir meri teen beti hain aur aj hamare bich rishtey itne bigard gaye ki hum 1 saal se alag reh rahe hain bachhon se baat hoti h mei apni maa k sath alag reh raha hoon is condition mei kya krna chahiye agar uska kisi se koi relation bn raha ho to

      2. Mera finance ka 2 saal se rishta h vo gusse me har bar meko hurt kr jate kuch esi baate bol k bt mena kbhi glt ni bola frnds k sath hote h roj baat kr lte h or ni krte to frnds k samne mujse uchi awaj me baat krte h or bolte tu pagal h ky mena kr diya phn msg mt kr smj ni arra n all maam me ky kru esa fr humra jagda badta jata h khtm.hi ni hota 2-3 din tk baat ni ho pati fr

  22. Sir me saadi sudaa hoo or ek ladke se bhut payar krti ho wo mera dost bhi h par wo kisi karn mujse baat nahi kr sakta jabki me iske Bena rah nahi sakti me hamesa uske teach me rahna chahti hoo kabhi wo mere msg or call se paresan bhi ho jata h to mujhe block bhi kr deta h me bhi padaai krti hoo or wo bhi kr raha h or baat na karne ki wajh apni exams ko bataata h mere msg se tang aakar hamaara jagda hota hi h me Kya karo uske me tach me rahna chahti hoo hamesa

  23. Me ek bht serious realtionshp me thi ldka gvt bank manager h othr cast….last kch din se humari ek choti si baat ko lekar bht bdi ldai ho rhi h iski shuruat uske shak krne ki adat se hui ab ldai suljane ki kosjis ki ldai khtam hui us ldai me usne muje bht hi jyada gnda bola dhamkia di papa ko call tk krne ki even rat ko 3 bje usne call b kr dia mene ja k uthaya usko….uske bad fir se jgde shuru hai jisme muje wo relation me rahne pe majboor kr rha h uske sath meri kai pics b hai uske sath physical relatn b hua h jiska fayda wo muje black mail krne me le rha h ab wo muje bht jbrdsti kr rha h ki me relatn me rahu kbi emotionally to kbi mrne ki dhamki deta h kbi muje darata h me ek khouf me jee rhi hu muje samj nh aa rha ussey kese picha chudau me apne ghr walo ko b nh bta skti wo mujpe bht trust krte h agr unhe pta chala me bht hi gir jaungi khud ki njro me na me uss ldke se ab koi rishta chahti hu qki usne apne pagalpan ki sab hade muje btabdi hai ab muje ussey dar lgta hai ase me uske sath shDi ka me soch b nh skti na wo muhe chod rha h na jeene de rha meri social sites b hack kr li usne me puri trh uske capture me hu uski dhamkio ki wajh se mene apne bhaiya ko bta dia ki ek ldka muje bht tng kr rha h uska no block kr do papa aur ap sb k no se but bhaiya muje puri bat puchne lge me unko puri bat bta du to b wo meri jyada help nh kr skte na me unko bta skti hu kyuki mene sb unko dhokha de k kia h……me police k pas b nh ja skti qki me wo dusri city ka hai aur police pe muje iss matter pe jyada trust nh ulta ijjat khrB hone k chance jyada hai muje samjh nh aa rh kya karu lgta h ki mar jau

  24. Mujhse ek bdi bhul hogyee hai ki mai aapne past wale bf se baat ki…jo ki mere pesent bf ko bilkul bhi acchi nahi lagi pr mujhe aab mere present ke sath life spend krni hai mujhe ek mokaa chahiye aapne bidghti hui rele. Ko swaru pr mere bf mujhse bohot naraj wo mai isme kya kru kuch solution btaiye mai aapne present bf se bohot pyar krti hu…

  25. Main aak ladki say bht pyar krta hun…apni jan say v jadaa.but wo ladki…humara baat ko mnti wo keese v ladka say baat krti hai main osko mna krta hun..os time boltee nahi karungee but phir say krna lgti hai or baat v krti hai toh flurty type ka aap batao ky kaara

  26. Hlo mam m married hu mere Sasural vale bahut tang karte h mere pati bhi Nahi kamata mere ek beta h m Kya kru natal mughe job bhi Nahi Karne date

  27. Hello mam
    meri shadi ko 2 saal ho chuke or husband mujhe time bilkul nhi dete isbare me mai unse baat v ki lekin wo nhi sunte to mai unse baat karna band kr di mai kya karu jo hmara relation thik ho jay

  28. Hello ma’am
    Meri shadi hone.wali.hai ek mahine bad or humari arrange marriage hai mera fiance mujhe bhut pyar krta hai lekin ab mujhe lgta hai ki vo mujhse jhut bolne or baate chipane lga hai unhone kbhi apne ghr ki baat share nhi ki or yha tk ki unhone drink ki or mujhe nhi btaya jb ki humari family main koi drink nhi krta hai or mujhe ulta sidha bola affiair ka iljam lgaya agr mera kisi ke sath aarffair hota toh majn kyu aarange marriage krti or shadi se pehle mujhe job bhi nhi krne di or ab dada dadi ke ghr jati hu tb bhi ilkjam ki koi dhudh rkha hai toh bta de main shadi krwa deta hu mujhe inki yeh baate bhut irritate krti hai jiss se mujhe bhut gussa aaya or maine shadi ke liye mna kr dia lekin vo bar bar sorry bol rha hai pr ab mujhe unki kisi baat pr ykin nhi hota hai tell me mujhe kya krna chahiye or shadi ki sari tyariyan bhi ho gai hai

  29. Hlo sir ..main kisi ko bhut pyar krti thi or finally humne court marriage v kr li but main Chandigarh me rhti Hun I’m sport person.yha job krti hun or wo apne ghar PR rhta h avi mere parents ko nhi pata jbki uske parents sb jante h support krte h but pichle kch mahino se humare bich bhut jhagde hote h wo lhta h I believe u But fir v wo shaq kRta h.main v use kafi time tak apni loyalty deti rhi usne mera bahar akele Jana net chalana bnd krwa diya.or me knowne kiya v ue sichkr ki rishta smbhal jayega but ab had ho gyi. Uski is bewakah me shaq se ghutan hone lagi h..or mene bat krna band kr di h wo v khta h mat kro bat bus ye rushta asa hi rahega.main tmhe divorse nhi dunga meri izzat ki bat h..sir I love him so much from childhood but now what can I do plz rpl me urjent.

  30. meri shadi 2013 me hoii mera ak baby he husband ne pregnent ko mjhe maara or oske baad bhi wese me osse bahot pyar krti hu or wo bhi krta tha mene CASe kiya court m pyar ke khatir or bacche ke liye band kra diya bt oske baad bhi gaandi gaandi gaaliya or marna rha mene phir case open karaya ..ab 2016 se case chl rha or iss bich wo mjh se milta bhi tha me chahti hu ki ye court me likh kr de de ki mjhe maarega nhi…bt wo bilkul mana kr rha h likhne ko ..or hr baar me hi call msg krti hu request krti hu tb baat krta h last time nov 2017 me baat hoii oske baad koi baat nhi kya kru me kuch samjh nhi aa rha apni mummy ke ghr rh rhi hu..3 saal ka baby he mjhe OSI ke sath rhna he …oski ma bhi bahot bhadkatti h ose mera husbnd hipper hota h ak baar osne apni ma ko bhi maara …pda likha m.b.a kiya hoa he phir bhi kya kru me kya kharcha order hone ke baad ye likhne ko ready hoga ya nhi kyuki ye likh de to me iske ghr chli jaogi

  31. Mem meri shaadi bahot jald hone wali meri honi wali wife pahle mujhe bahot imprtents deti thi ab dheere dheere kam ho rahi hai phone bhi recvie karne main bahot nakhtre dikhati hai uska pahle bhi ek bf thaa. Main kiya karo

  32. Mem
    Meri umr 19 saal h meri shaadi Ho chuki h v mere husband army me h bolne ko to vo bolte h ki m tumse bhut pyar krta hu but duty pr Jane k baad bhut km call krte m kru to thik varna nhi kiya to b chlega Iska m Ye man lu ki sayad Vo busy honge but mem vo whatsapp pr 30min 40min online rh jate h but us time main mujhe Koi message hi nhi krte
    Aur ghr pr rhte h to pura time dosto k saad market me ghumte h pura din dikhyi b nhi dete aur raat ko aate h 9bje ya uske baad
    Mem ab to baat yha tk aa gai ki vo kai br to raat ko b ghumne k liye jane lge h kbi dancer dekhne kbi shaadi dekhne
    Aur unhe pura din ese market me jane se mna krne pr vo gussa ho jate h aur yha tk ki esi baate bol jate h ki m un baato ko puri jindgi na bhula Pau hd yha hoti h ki gussa khtm hone pr sorry bolne ki bjay vo ye bolte ki tu Vo baat bhula de please
    Baad me jb kbi jhgda hota h to m unhe vo baate remind krvati hu ki aap phle b mujhe bhut kuch kh chuke ho to phir vo jyada gussa hote h please suggest me what I do

  33. Aur mem uski saving k baare main puchne pr ya btane pr ki aap please money save kiya kre future k liye aapne aaj tk kuch save kyon nhi kiya is prkar se save krte to sayad paise hote aapke pass to Vo bolte h ki aapko nhi pta ghr kaise chlta h aapka dimag jyada chlta h ese ho hi nhi skta vaise b aapki umr nhi h ye baate sochne ki jb time aayega to pta chlega ki saving kaise hoti h aur vo mujhe kuch btane k bjay ye bolkr taal dete h
    Unhe btana to chahiye kya Kitna kha khrch ho rha h aur kitni saving ki unhone

  34. Sir meri mangetar aur mujh mein khub jhagde ho rahe hai aj kal wo mujhe ignore kar rahi hai chiddapan ye sab uske nature mai pata nahi kaha se aa gya hai ye phele nahi tha usmey….wo kafi badal gayi hai ..jaisa mai phele mila tha ab wo nahi rahi hai…usne kuch time phele mujhe ek ladke ke bare mai batya tha ki wo mujhe purpose krne aya tha ye bat meri sagai ke phele ki hai par uska kehna hai maine mana kar diya tha..aur abhi recently usne uske sath holi kheli …ye sab usne mujhe btaya..mere puchne par wo jgada krne lagi aur. Bat chit band kr di.message pack mai hi dalta hun uske mobile mein bt karne ke liye par mujhe message nahi krti…na call attend krti hai ..call busy btata hai pucho to kehti hai papa ka phone aya tha uske papa bahar job karte hai other city mai…kya karu kuch samajh nahi aa rha hai kya chod do rishtey ko tod dun sagai…koi respect se bat nahi karti hai..bs kewal apne bare mai sochti hai….plz help me suggest me bhaut pareshan ho gya hun

  35. Mera bf relationship ke starting me bht bht bht sweet or ab bht gussa krta hai…halka sa bhi behas hota hai…bht gussa krne lgta hai…or mera no. Block list me dal deta hai…pyar bht karta hai…but gussa hadh se zyada mjak mjak me rula dega…or jhgda tb tk karega jb tk mai na rou…or fir mana leta hai…or dusri ldkio ka nam.le kr mujhe bht chidhata haii…..or isi choti bat ko lekar hum log ka bht bda jhgda ho jata hai…..

    1. Isay kahte hai apne pair me khud kulhadi marna… Kya apko uske sath apni puri jindagi bitani hai jo aapki respect nahi karta , kya aap aise insan se pyar karti ho jo aapko har baat me rulata rehta hai.. To aap galat raste me ja raeh ho , aisa rasta jo aapko sidhe khai me le jayegi or jaha se wapas aana muskil ho jayega… Isliye waqt rehte sambhal jaiye.. Yahi aapke liye behtar hoga, or aise logo ko apni life me impotence mat dijiye jo respect ke layak nahi.. Baki aap samajhdar ho..

  36. hai….sir Mai ek ladkese pyar karti hun wo bhi mujhse pagalo ki taraha pyar karta tha us ladkeki mom ki tabiyat theak ni hai par wo mujhse e baat chupaya tha jab break up huva tab mujhe malum huva ki unko cancer hai karke 3-4 yr hai unke paas mai us time me bhi uska saath dena chahati thi par mom and mujhme kisi ek ko select karna tha wo apne mom ko select kare mujhe bura ni laga bas mai uske aise waqt me saath dena chahati hun par wo mujhse har rishta khatam kar chuka hai kisi msg ka reply ni dete sab number reject list me dale hai mai jo bhi status me dalti hun wo dekhte hai par phir bi mujhe unki fikar rehti hai har koshish ki unko manane ki par wo har meri insult karte the break up hoke 2 month huva hai

    1. e to bhaut acchi baat hai ki love or mom me se unhone apne mom ko select kiya or aapko iske liye unpar garbh hona chahiye.. Hamari suggestion yahi hai ki aap apni life ko fir se naye sire se start kare, jo hogaya wo accha hua yahi soch kar aage kadam badhaye.. Aap jitna apne past ko dekhoge utna hi aapka future dark me chala jayega, isliye aap apne future par concentrate kijiye..

  37. Sir Apne likha h ki ghr walo Ko bich mI na laye agr jhagda ghr walo ki wjh se hi hoo ..hmesa jhagda ki reason maa bhai behan ho to kya kre…

    1. Iska matlab ye hai ki koi chugli kar raha hai a fir kaan bhar raha hai.. Agar aisa hai to silent ho jao.. Silent har problem ka solution hota hai.. Agar kisi koi ladai lagane me maja aata hai to aap ladhai karo hi na, dhire dhire sab thik ho jayega..

  38. Hmare riste me kafi waqt se bht ladaiya horhi h..or abto hr choti bat pr issue bn jata h..hum dono ekdusre se pyar bht krte h ..lekin ab kbi kbi lgta h ki alg hojana hi shi h..lekin hm y b jante h ki alg hokr hm tut jaenge…
    abi b hmara rista kch aisa hi h ki hm alg hi h..kafi dino me ab bat hui h..lekin rista kese acha kre sb krke dkhlia…gusse me waqt ne sb bigad sa rkha h..

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