Har kisi ki life me ye waqt jarur ata hi hai jab hum kisi anjan ladki ko dekh kar uski tarf attract hote hai. Ye bhi life ke baki experiences me se ek hai. Jo age ke sath sath hum feel karte hai. Jab ladka kisi attractive girl ko dekhta hai to uske mann me ek hi khayal ata ki kas ye meri girlfriend ban jaye, par bina hath pair hilaye aj ke time pe kuch naseeb nahi hoti. Kahi baar hum baat karne ki himmat to kar lete hai par hamara baat karne ka tarika humari liye pareshani khadi kar deta hai. Kya aap ko lagta hai ki aap bhi isi problem ka solution dhoond rahe hai to ab aap befikar rahiye yahan haum aapke liye kuch aisi tips or ideas lekar aye hai jo aapki is problem ka jarur solution nikalegi.
COACHING WALI LADKI SE KAISE BAAT KARE
Dhimi Aawaz Se Use Wish Kare
Agar wo aapki classmate hai, ya to aapko bahut se jariye mil jate hai baat karne ke. Kyunki aapka uske sath regular eye contact ban jata hai, or kahi baar kisi subject me problem ane se hamari thodi bahut hi hello bhi ho hi jati hai. To jab kabhi bhi aap aise mauke dhoondte hai ya aapko milte hai to aapko iska fayda uthana chaiye. Jab aap apni class me use mile to dhimi aawaz me usko good morning ya good day wish kare or regular kare.
Join Her On Facebook
Agar aapko lagta hai, ki directly aap baat karne me ghabra ya sharma rahe hai to behtar hoga ki aap use facebook par join karle. Fb par baat karne se aapko apni baat badane or ladki ke baat karne se aapko andaza ho jayega ki ladki ko kaise treat karna hai. Ladki gusse wali hai shant subav ki ye jaanne ke liye facebook aapki bahut help karega. Facebook par baat karne ka tarika bhi aapko ana chahiye aap shuru me Hi, Hello, How are you likh ke bhej sakte hai. Agar reply ata hai, to aap continue kar sakte hai. Fir usse uski hobbies puche jaise ki, family, favorite TV shows, actors, musicians, and movies. Agar reply nahi ata hai to aap ek ya do msg se jada use msg na kare isse ladkiya irritate ho jati hai or natiza aapko pata hi hoga block ya unfriend.
Be Supportive
Coaching me aap uski help kar sakte hai, agar use kisi ya koi subject me problem hai. Aap yahan par ye tarika apna sakte hai ki jab aap usko kuch bata rahe hai ya samja rahe hai to use bilkul bhi attitude na dikhaye. Aap use ye feel na kraye ki aap bahut intelligent ho, ya class me aapse jyada koi us cheez ko nahi janta. Isse wo na to aapse ageh kabhi puchne ki koshish karegi or jab koshish hi nahi hogi to fir baat kahan se hogi.
Gusse Ya Chahere Pe Attitude Na Rakhe
Aap jab bhi usse baat kare to hamesha cool mind ho kar baat kare. Uski baatein sunte waqt apni gardan idhar udhar na hilaye. Gussa ladki ko bikul bhi pasand nahi hota, to jab bhi aap personally (face to face) mile to chehre pe halki si smile rakhe jisse ladkiya comfortable feel karti hai.
Possessive Na Ho
Agar ladki ek ya do din tak class me se absent hai, to aap is baat pe jada utaaru na ho jana. Jaise ki kyu nahi aye, kahan gaye the matlab puche jarur par aise tarike se na puche jisse use lage ki aap kuch jyada react kar rahe hai. Kyunki wo aapki life partner nahi hai, jo aap uske upar apna hak jatao har kisi ki apni personal (social) life hoti hai. To behtar hai aisi choti moti baton ko aap ignore kare.
Umeed karta hun ki main aapki is topic par ache se help kar paya hun. Agar fir bhi aap apne kuch vichar (views)/suggestion hum tak pahunchana chahate hai to niche comment box ke jariye aap hum tak apni baat puhuncha sakte hai.
