GF PAHLE KI TARAH INTEREST NHI LETI? Ek friend Deep ne Kolkata se hume ek sawal pucha hai jiska jawab vo chahte hai ki hum unhe jawab de aur unki problem se bahar aane me help kare. I’m giving him my suggestion and sab readers ko request hai ki unki problem padh kar unhe salah de ki ab jab unki Girlfriend ka behaviour bahut jyada change ho gya hai and vo ab Deep ki baato par utna gaur nhi karti jitna pahle karti thi. Aise me Deep ko kya karna chahiye…
Meri ek Girlfriend hai jisse mera love Facebook se start hua. Wo Allahabad ki hai and Main Kolkata ka, but kuch dino me call pe ham kaafi close ho chuke the. Fir mai usse milane Allahabad gya. Hum mile baate huyi, kuchh mulakate huyi, humare beech sab kuch ho chuka hai aur mujhe yekeen hai jo bhi hua vo hum dono ka hi first time tha. Wo mere cast ki nhi hai. Usne meri help bhi bahut ki.. aur aaj mai 2 saal baad uske city me aa gya, kolkata se is chote city me padhne ko. Mai hostel le kar rahta hu aur B.tech kar rha hu, but wo ab mujhe utna bhaw nhi deti aur kahti hai aaj kal bhai aur sab ghar pe hi rahte hai. Wo bol rhi hai tum bhi padh lo aur mai bhi fir job ke baad ghar pe baat karenge. But aaj kal wo pahle jaisi nhi rhi, kahti pahle pata nhi kyu tumhare liye pagal si thi but ab kam hai khud ko sambhal liya hai. Pahle wo milne ko tadapti thi ab paas aa gya to sab khatam. Aur pahle ki tarah help bhi nhi karti aur mujhpe doubt bhi karne lagi hai, jabki main kuch bhi gaat nhi kar rha. Halanki Vo kahti hai… “Pyar mai tumse hi karti hu tumhare baad koi ni hoga”. Mai apne papa ki marji se hi shaadi karungi. Tum job kar lena to hum dono papa se baat karenge.
Ab aap bolo Main kya karu kya na karu ? Mujhe career bhi banana hai isi beech. Kyuki ye mera turning point hai life ka.. mere ghar ki paristhitiya bhi kharab chalne lagi hai but is baat ki care nhi karti wo bas ab apna hi sunati hai, pahle jaise nhi rhi ab wo.. Main Kya karu ?
My Answer…
Dekho Deep, Vo ladki safe game khel rhi hai ki agar sab theek rha and situations achi thi fir to vo aapki sakti hai aur agar kuch bhi idhar udhar hua to vo aapko bade aaram se chod degi, isiliye vo aapse ek distance maintain karke chal rhi hai taaki jab aisa kuch ho to aap problem na create karo. And khi na khi vo apni jagah theek bhi hai. So my advice for you is…
Uski taraf jyada dhyaan dene ki bjaye concentrate on ur studies and career. Set ur Goals big and try to reach there at any cost. Aapki zindgi ka sabse bada maksad ek ladki jo aapse shayad ab pyar bhi nhi karti ko paane ki bjaaye apne maa baap jo bechare aapke liye hjar takleefe seh ke bhi aapko B.tech kar rhe hai, unko sab sukh dena hai. Pahle unke baare me aur fir apne baare me socho. Unhone jitne compromises kiye hai aapke liye uska mol chukao. Ek ladki jisne kuch din pyar mohabbat ki baate kar li aur kuch din saath reh li uske chakkar me apne maa baap ki takleef mat bhulo. Jab kabhi aisi musibat aayi jiska saamna karna bahut muskil hoga aapke liye to chances hai vo ladki khi nhi dikhegi jabhi ghar waale har kadam aapka saath denge. Aur jha tak rhi pyar ki baat to aap khud soch lo 20 saal diya hua maa ka pyar aur baap ka aapke liye bahaya gya khoon paseena jyada bada hai ya 2 saal ek ladki se ki huyi baate aur share kiya hua kuch time ? Jawab aapko khud mil jaayega. I don’t say ki aap us ladki ko chod do but Main keh rhi hu ki maintain things wisely. Jo cheez jruri hai uski taraf jyada dhyaan do vhi aapke liye aur aapki family ke liye acha hoga.
So friends this was my suggestion on Love & Relationship problem to a friend who is in problem. Hope it will help you Deep. Agr abhi bhi koi doubt hai to ask it. Best of Luck. Best wishes for your life ahead. Your friend. ♥
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